Karishma means a ‘miracle’ in Hindi and true to her name Karishma worked out a miracle in her life when her chips were down. Fate had dealt a cruel blow to Karishma and her sister when a boat carrying their mother capsized in the Wainganga River. Her father had already abandoned the family and even the death of his wife couldn’t convince him to come back for the little girls.
The 2 sisters were left in the care of their ageing grandparents, who lived in one of the indistinguishable mud and daub homes that line the lone road of Khamare village.
While the neighbours and relatives advised the grandparents to marry off Karishma, she stood her ground and refused to get married. In fact, from farming to working as a maid she did it all to keep the household fires burning along with studying. Karishma ensured her sister didn’t drop out either. “We just have each other – I knew even back then how important education was to our future.”
Karishma is an active member of the Magic Bus initiative that empowers adolescent girls in 62 underprivileged rural communities of Bhandara in Maharashtra. She is also among the 115 elected Community Youth Leaders (locally referred to as didi) whose job is to encourage local adolescent girls to work towards meaningful careers after completing their education along with motivating parents to give equal opportunities for education to both girls and boys.
Every day she challenges head-on the most deep-rooted prejudice and stereotypes against girls education. Karishma says it is very difficult to convince parents to give equal opportunities to girls.
“A lot needs to be done before parents understand the importance of education for girls. When I talk about girls’ education, they are mostly dismissive. Why would they want to listen to an 18 year old, that too a girl?” she asks smilingly.
Although working with a cause she deeply believes in, Karishma never recognised her leadership potential. “I was so buried under domestic responsibilities that I didn’t have time for anything else. The time I spend during the sessions with children puts me in touch with the lives of others around me. It is almost as if I was living in a cocoon so far,” she says.
In another year, karishma will complete Class XII. Her sister is now in high school. All of 18 years, Karishma is working out miracles on the strength accumulated by overcoming insurmountable difficulties.